Everyone in Hollywood is applauding Raven-Symone for coming out quietly over the weekend on social media. It’s considered ‘thoughtful and dignified’. When celebs come out as gay in a more pronounced manner, it’s consider ‘bold and courageous’. If you come out only after getting caught on the down low in a gay romp, it’s considered ‘tough and understandable’. Even if you don’t officially come out, you’re referred to reverently as Academy Award Winner Kevin Spacey. And, if you happen to be the unfortunate straight bastard in this town, nobody calls you at all.